You're the contractor.
You are building a spiritual house, the kind that will protect you when the winds of life buffet you.
Every moment you have serious pondering time with God, focusing on Him through reading, listening, praying, alone or with others, you lay a brick in the foundation.
You read about how unconditional His love is, no matter where you've been? That's a brick, a big brick. You see Him answer a fervent prayer of your heart that no one else knows about? That's another brick that can lead to a flurry of building because you are so motivated.
But oh, you mainly check in with Him on Sundays?
Your house may be a slow-go. One brick a week would hardly a difference make.
But then again, you're the contractor. You can build it any way you want.
I'm just sayin'...