Whether or not you have a real spouse, you have a marriage relationship in your life that is pivotal to the quality of your days.
I'm convinced each of us is married either to our blessings or our pain.
Are you known for lightness and joy and peace OR complaining and blaming and misery?
The most amazing thing to me is that the people we most admire are married to their blessings in the face of incredible adversity and hardship. That tells me the depth of troubles does not determine to whom we marry ourselves.
It must be choice or point of view or determination or all of the above.
So...quit complaining.
Quit blaming.
Quit being miserable.
Your pain won't leave you but you will leave it, in a sense, because you can turn your attention toward your blessings. Divorce your attention from your pain.
I guess the cool thing about it is you get to get married anew each day.
So in the morning, if God is on your wedding guest list, will you be inviting Him to a blessings celebration or a complainfest?
